In Willy’s memory of a visit from his brother, Ben, he seems very serious about encouraging his sons to be tough and manly. Through the connection he is struggling to make with Ben, it is clear that he wants his sons to have good family values, and to stick together. Willy tries to teach Happy and Biff to be “rugged, well-liked, all around” (34). These are some of the attributes that he needs in order to be successful at his job. He wants his sons to be hard working so that they can be thriving and “coming out of the jungle” young like Ben did. These are important values for Willy to teach them because it will help them to lead happier and fuller lives. However, it is also important that Willy does not put too much emphasis on pursuing one’s career or else Happy or Biff may end up being a workaholic like him.
Willy’s inconsistencies as he speaks with his wife, Linda, express his differing ideas on what he should be and what he thinks he is. Although he has been working diligently all his life to try and achieve the American dream, Willy is yet unsuccessful. Because of this, part of him believes that he is unlikable and lazy. Willy tends to project his flaws onto others in order to make them more bearable to himself. He says that Biff is lazy, when he really thinks the opposite. He is seeing his own failures in his son. The same goes for the Chevy. Linda reacts to Willy’s contradictions by agreeing with him no matter what he says. She does not point out that he has said two completely opposing opinions. Linda helps Willy by supporting and encouraging him as much as she can. As he already sees so many flaws in himself and he is in such a hopeless positions, were she to bring up each and every one of his mistakes it would only discourage him and cause him to draw inside himself further. Her criticism would not help matters any, but her support keeps Willy feeling like the fight is worth fighting.